1) Followed, Stalked and being chased
2) Kids are followed and being chased
3) Kidnapping the kids
4) Threatening the pet
5) Threatening to make their life so miserable that they would commit suicide
6) Revoke restraining orders leading to violence again
7) Breach of restraining orders
They told me to keep quiet. Otherwise, they are at risk of losing custody.
9) Money being stolen from banks (because they have access)
10) Show up in front of new places (wherever, whenever)
11) Being beaten, pushed, forced, thrown to come home or let them stay there
12) Their co-workers receive disturbing emails
13) Their personal information is being shared publicly
14) Making scenes on the job
15) Sneak into the house & threatening the family
16) Showing with guns at the home, office or public places
17) Gunshots
18) Burning the house
19) Burning the family
20) Poisoning
21) In shared custody, children still face domestic violence: not being allowed to meet the family, turning off the electric appliance, and pushing them.
22) Abusing through children
23) Convincing children that the other partner is unstable
24) Tracking down the online platform
25) Pee at the yards of the partner
26) PTSD, depression, relationship anxiety, Panic Attacks, sleepless nights,
27) Threatening to Kill themselves & will leave a suicide note under the partners\’ name
28) Fell pregnant after the escape- threats of abortion, threats of shots
29) Afraid of life
30) Some lives with broken bones, chronic pain, and lost body part
31) Loans under the partner\’s name (while the partner is not aware of it)
32) Abusing through the court system
33) Escapers might turn to gambling, alcohol, and drugs to cope with the stress.
34) Escaper might avoid & ignores the family members, food, hygiene, clothes
35) Escapers went back to DV because they thought it was their poison & remedy
36) Self-harm, suicidal, aggressive
37) Lack of non-violent social problem-solving skills
38) The desire for power & control in the relationship. Difficulty in understanding that it is DV & not love
39) Justifying violence & then practicing it on family & friends
40) Constant threats to hurt or kill close family & friends to tell escapers details
41) Constant showups at friends\’ & family\’s houses. Job etc